FGLI, Race Relations, Wellness
I’m Jesse's dad. He’s six. We love to talk about superheroes, the deep mysteries of life, how big and fast he is getting, anything with numbers, fairness, and the Boston Celtics. I’m also a PhD student in psychology here at Harvard. My wife, Alison, and I, love living here at Adams. We get to know so many great people! Alison and I are both from Southeast Virginia, near the cities of Norfolk and Virginia Beach. Before coming to Harvard, I graduated from UNC at Chapel Hill and Durham Technical Community College. Before that, I failed my first senior year of HS and my first year of college. It’s a long story. A lot of good things are. For some reason, I really love long stories, underdogs, comebacks, and general improvement.
What’s bringing you joy right now?
Joy is a feeling that I associate with pleasant surprises. We can find joy through work, like researching and discovering a new and distinct way of explaining what we’ve seen a million times before. We can find joy in daily habits, like cooking and putting a new twist on an old recipe. Most of my joy comes from spending time with people in one-on-one or small group settings. The sort of things that are discussed when there are just a few people there are just different. I find that I hear the most surprises, or the good stuff, when things are allowed to flow, get deep, and just be organic. Those sorts of conversations are handmade. I feel joy when people are able to just be themselves and share.
Good surprises can bring joy, and the most consistently surprising person I interact with is my son. He’s really funny! I love to hear his perspective on the world and his theories on everything. There's a lot that's familiar in what he says because he is my kid, and I used to be six, but he’s his own person! I really enjoy hearing the twists that he adds to the mix. He makes ordinary things interesting, and his eye towards a future of possibilities is something that I especially value today.
Things I love:
Sharing and listening to stories, cooking without recipes, helping and learning from others, hearing about or thinking up a new idea, arguing with friends in a friendly way about things of no importance, going for walks, and reading comics.